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Brett walker daily evolver6/12/2023 The relationship itself becomes a container for the updraft of development in both the partners.Originally released in 1994 on Swedish independent label, Empire Records, American singer/songwriter BRETT WALKER’s debut Nevertheless impressively charted in Scandinavia’s Top 40. Keith says he’s never seen this researched the way that meditation and other practices have been researched (yet!) but he’s found it to be true in his own life. In relationship, when you are responding to your partner, to their happiness and suffering, you are definitely accelerating your development. People operating at the teal altitude can observe structures of consciousness in themselves and their partners, and as we know from studying development, mindful self-observation accelerates development which gives us response flexibility. Of course, if you have stable access to 2nd tier consciousness then you’re really ahead of the game. When it comes down to brass tacks, couples that can down-regulate anger and up-regulate the positive emotions are ones that are destined for the long term. If you want to take it down to just one thing, the evolution of consciousness is just getting better and better at finding our way through to love. If two people want to get there and they’re willing to take care of themselves and change, they can find a way through to love again and again and again. ![]() Imagine that! Being nice… There is a way to love. They focus on trying to understand each other and lastly, they really try to be nice to each other. Keith says there are a lot of factors, but Bagley discovered a few very important ones: Couples that stay together don’t fight to win, they fight to resolve the conflict. There is always going to be conflict though, and couples that want to be together for the long term have to know how to navigate it. They did something everyday to show love for each other
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